I completely understand your concerns and anxieties. It’s completely understandable that you’re worried about your son in this situation and that his explanations aren’t enough. At 15, children develop in different ways, and as a parent, you want to make sure he’s okay.

Let’s look at this rationally and without panicking. What you’re describing could have many causes – from completely harmless to something that requires medical attention.

What could it be? Maybe candy or dietary supplements: There are different types of small candies, menthol breath fresheners (e.g. mini Tic Tacs, various drops) or dextrose. It could also be over-the-counter dietary supplements (e.g. zinc, small vitamin pills).

Nicotine pouches or other legal stimulants: Nicotine pouches (also known as “buds” or “chewing tobacco”) are very popular among young people these days. Although they are sold in pouches, there are also various sweet products or energy pills in pellet form.

Medications (prescription or over-the-counter): These can be common painkillers, allergy pills, or medications that one of your friends is taking.

Illegal substances: Of course, it is not entirely impossible that something illegal (like ecstasy or other synthetic substances) is the cause of your problems.

What now?

You don’t have to blame anyone right away, but it is important to get the facts. Here are some steps to approach the situation calmly:

Try to identify the substance (if possible): If the pellets have a letter, number, or specific symbol on them, you can look it up online. If they look like regular pills from the drugstore, pharmacists can often tell what kind of medication they are just by looking at them.

Speak calmly to your child: Grabbing a 15-year-old by the throat and yelling at them will usually only make them withdraw and lie even more. Try sitting down when you are calm. Instead of asking, “What on earth are you taking?” say something like, “I found this in my backpack. I’m worried about you and I want to make sure you’re okay. I don’t think it’s candy. Please tell me the truth.”

Observe their behavior: Has it changed recently? Do they have other friends, have their grades dropped, are they extremely tired or hyperactive? Do they have mood swings? Finding beads on their own can mean many things, but when combined with changes in behavior, it’s a warning sign.

I understand that this is extremely difficult, but remember that the most important thing is to talk openly with your son so that he is not afraid to tell you the truth, even if it means getting in trouble.

What exactly do the marbles look like? Were they wrapped or just scattered?