This is a big event! Choosing a dress for the mother of the groom is an art in itself – the goal is to look elegant and dignified and feel comfortable without overshadowing the bride (or suffering all day).
Here’s a guide to help your mother navigate the process and find the perfect dress:
Golden Rules of Etiquette
Before you start browsing through catalogs, consider these three points:
Colors to Avoid: Traditionally, white, cream, and ivory are not worn (these colors are reserved for the bride), nor black (it looks somber unless it’s a strictly modern “black tie” wedding).
Mother of the Bride Coordination: It’s a good idea to check with the mother of the bride beforehand to make sure your dress colors don’t clash (for example, neon pink and olive green). They don’t have to be identical, but they should be color-coordinated.
Consider the theme: If your wedding has a specific color palette, try to stick to it—the mother of the groom will look absolutely stunning in the wedding colors in the photos.
How to Choose the Right Fit for Your Body Type?
Body Type | Recommended Fit | Why It’s Perfect for You?
Pear Shape: A-line or empire waist dresses. They’ll cover up your wider hips and accentuate your narrow waist.
Apple Shape: Wrap dresses or dresses with waist details. They’ll create a beautiful silhouette and visually elongate your figure.
Hourglass Shape: Powder-colored dresses with a boat neck. They will emphasize feminine curves without unnecessary bulk.
Petite figure: Solid-colored dresses above the knee or in midi length. They are flattering and visually make the figure taller.
What is trendy this year?
If the expectant mother wants to look modern and elegant at the same time, I recommend the following trends:
Midi length: Dresses that reach below the knees to mid-calf are especially flattering. They look luxurious and are practical for walking and dancing.
Pastel and jewel tones: Sage, powder blue, dusty pink or, conversely, royal blue and burgundy.
Lace and chiffon: Lightweight chiffon will hide minor imperfections, while lace adds a festive touch.
Jacket or cape: If the bride does not want to show her arms, a lightweight, color-coordinated jacket or chiffon cape is more stylish than a regular sweater.
Practical tips for more comfort:
Pro tip: Don’t forget your underwear! Well-fitting, shape-enhancing underwear adds more to the overall look of your dress than expensive jewelry.
Fabric: Weddings are long. Avoid wrinkle-prone materials (e.g. pure linen). Choose blended fabrics that will hold their shape.
Shoes: If the bride isn’t wearing heels, there’s no need to start now. Elegant little heels or embellished ballerinas are perfectly fine.
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What time of year is the wedding?
Where will the wedding be held? (Castle, barn, town hall, meadow…)
What is the mother’s favorite color or eye/hair color?